What is how to ask a girl if she likes you without being obvious over text?

  1. Start with a casual conversation: Before you ask her directly, start a conversation with her and see how she responds. You can start by asking her about her day or what she is up to.

  2. Pay attention to her responses: Observe her response while texting, if she's interested in continuing the conversation or if she's texting with long replies or just giving short answers that depict disinterest.

  3. Read between lines: Observe if she is giving any hint or signals. If she's doing so, ask her questions that can clarify your doubts.

  4. Ask indirect questions: Ask her some indirect questions that can help you gauge her feelings without directly asking her if she likes you. For example, You can ask, "What do you think about relationships in general?"

  5. Don’t push her for an answer: If you don't get the answer you are looking for, don't push her or pressure her into answering. Sometimes people need time to think about their feelings.

  6. Use humor: You can use a little bit of humour when asking her about her feelings, so that it doesn't sound too serious or intense.

  7. Be confident: Be confident while conversing with her, but don't go overboard. Confidence is attractive, but cockiness can be a turnoff.